The rising cost of saying ‘I do’
Wedding venues are becoming one of the most expensive parts of modern marriages.
Planning a wedding has always required budgeting, but lately the numbers feel almost surreal. Across South Africa, couples are discovering that securing a venue alone can consume a large portion of their total wedding spend. What was once a manageable line item has evolved into a premium experience with a premium price tag.
The pressure is amplified by social media expectations. Pinterest-perfect décor, curated menus and scenic backdrops have become the norm rather than the exception. Venues are no longer just spaces to host guests; they are selling atmosphere, exclusivity and an entire aesthetic. As highlighted in wedding trend discussions, the global industry is seeing steady price increases driven by people wanting more aesthetic weddings, and there many tips on how to achieve this.
Locally, the impact is tangible. Popular wine farms, boutique estates and coastal venues are booking out months in advance. Venue hire in sought-after areas can range from R40,000 to well over R150,000, often excluding catering and décor. For many couples, that is the equivalent of a deposit on a car or even part of a home loan.
Why prices are climbing
Several factors are driving the escalation. Inflation affects everything from staffing to electricity and maintenance. Load-shedding has also forced venues to invest in generators and backup systems, costs that are inevitably passed on to clients. Add to that the post-pandemic surge in postponed weddings, and demand continues to outweigh supply.
The ‘all-inclusive’ illusion
Many venues now advertise all-inclusive packages. While convenient, these packages can obscure the true breakdown of costs. Couples may feel pressured to use in-house caterers, bar services or décor partners, limiting flexibility and often inflating the final bill beyond the advertised base rate.
Rethinking the modern wedding
The rising costs are pushing couples to reconsider priorities. Smaller guest lists, weekday weddings and alternative venues such as family homes or community halls are becoming more appealing. Some are even choosing destination elopements over traditional celebrations.
Weddings should mark the start of a marriage, not the beginning of financial strain.