33 Things you should know before moving to South Korea

South Korea has become a popular destination for young South Africans who want to teach English, have an adventure, save some money and experience an entirely different culture.

Helena Lorimer
Helena Lorimer, Capetonian in South Korea

So we asked Capetonian Helena Lorimer, who has spent three years teaching English in South Korea, to give us the lowdown on everything a South African should know before heading over.

“Coming to Korea is definitely a culture shock,” says Helena. “I always thought it was a small world – until arriving here. My first impression was that I was on a different planet…but it was exciting.

“Learning about a new culture has only made me a stronger, more worldly and open-minded person. It is here that I have done a lot of growing.”


Useful Things to Know Before Moving to South Korea

1. Pack well. There are four distinct seasons.

Extreme summers and winters, which usually last much longer than autumn and spring. There is a month or so of unbearable humidity in summer.

Winter in Ansan, Gyoenngi Do province.
Winter in Ansan, Gyoenngi Do province.
Cherry blossom during Spring
Cherry blossom during Spring
Heart shaped leaf. Autumn in Icheon, Gyeonggi-Do
Autumn in Icheon, Gyeonggi-Do

2. Finding larger clothes and shoes to buy in South Korea is difficult.

You will be able to go to Western-owned stores like Forever21 and H&M in the country’s capital Seoul to find clothes slightly bigger. Otherwise, it may prove difficult for larger people. Shoes usually go up to a size 6 for girls. I am not sure what size the boys’ shoes go up to, but also quite small. You can, again, travel to Seoul for those things.

3. The Hello Kitty Cafe in Hongdae, Seoul, is one of the area’s most beloved restaurants.

Hello Kitty Cafe in Hongdae, Seoul
Hello Kitty Cafe in Hongdae, Seoul

4. Koreans will share food.

You will hardly ever get your own plate of food unless you are at a western style restaurant (which is more expensive). You will eat with chopsticks (even when eating cake!), and order some kind of meat or soup which usually comes with many side dishes (like radish, onion and kimchi).

Mandu (dumplings)
Mandu (dumplings)
Eating cake with chopsticks
Eating cake with chopsticks!
Sharing meals, the middle is for a fire and grid so you can cool your own meat - like in the next picture:
Sharing meals – the middle is for a fire and grid so you can cool your own meat – like in the next picture…
Sharing meals, the middle is for a fire and grid so you can cool your own meat - like in this picture:
Cooling meat (see picture above)

5. You will usually sit on the floor at restaurants.

You will sit on the floor usually at restaurants

6. Koreans will not smile at you as you pass them by.

Don’t take it a personally. The culture is different. A nod or bow is a sign of respect and how you say hello or goodbye. They also tend to stare at foreigners quite a bit.

7. The level of English is not quite fluent.

So be prepared to use google translate, pictures, hand signals and to learn some Korean (since you are in their country!). The Korean alphabet is very easy to learn.

8. Students spend many hours a day studying.

After regular school during the day, students attend after-school programmes – such as English and Taekwondo lessons. They usually get home very late.

If you are teaching at an English Academy, you will most likely work long hours as opposed to at a Public School.

Teaching primary school children English pop songs (Backstreet Boys)

9. The transport is fantastic.

The fantastic transport system makes it easy to travel. The buses, subway, train and taxis are great. However, taxi drivers are usually quite rude.

14-subway

10. Koreans don’t wear swimming costumes…

But they will swim in their clothes! They also do not appreciate women showing their shoulders in public, or revealing cleavage. However, short shorts are appropriate.

11. Pack your own towels, medicine, deodorant…

I would suggest you bring your own towels (because of the size), toothpaste, deodorant (which is very expensive in South Korea, and there are hardly any brands), clothes for a year if you’re larger, and medication that you think you’ll need for the year.

12. Internet speed is amazing.

And you can pick up wifi just about anywhere.

13. Koreans will drink soju with meals.

Drinking soju with meals is seen as a great bonding tool, especially with business men.

Soju with shot glass.
Soju with shot glass.

Soju is a type of alcohol with a similar taste to vodka but less percentage of alcohol. It is drunk in shot glasses in copious amounts. You’ll often see drunk men walking home at night. Soju is very cheap and can be bought at any convenience store. A typical summer’s night is spent drinking Soju outside a convenience store amongst foreigners.

Drinking outside a convenience store.
Drinking outside a convenience store.

14. There are convenience stores EVERYWHERE.

15. Shops usually open around 10 or 10:30am and are open until late (8-10pm).

16. You CAN find South African food!

The foreigner part of Seoul is Itaewon, and you can find two South African restaurants there – Braai Republic and Twiga. They sell all sorts of South African food and drinks.

Braai Republic (lamb chops)
Lamb chops at Braai Republic
Braai Republic (poetjie kos)
Poetjie kos at South African restaurant in South Korea – Braai Republic

17. Try and keep your personal life to yourself…

because Koreans like to gossip a bit, especially at work.

18. It is very safe.

You can leave your doors unlocked, walk around the street at night and take transport by yourself anytime.

19. Foreigners are friendly.

Foreigners are always up for making new friends. There are many Facebook groups for different cities and they have regular meet ups.

20. Your apartment will be small.

The apartment given to you will most likely to be quite small and there is usually not a closed-off shower but rather a shower head in the middle of the bathroom under which you shower.

21. The women make use of squat toilets.

Most restaurants will make use of those but otherwise, you should be able to find a western toilet.

Koreans do not flush the toilet paper down the toilet, but instead throw it into an open bin next to the toilet.

Throwing toilet paper in a bin next to you, not in the toilet.

22. The men spit on the streets…

A lot.

23. Koreans are crazy for fried chicken, beer, kimchi, rice and Kpop.

Kimchi is fermented cabbage with a spicy sauce.

Kimchi (fermented cabbage with a spicy sauce)
Kimchi (fermented cabbage with a spicy sauce)
Kimchi and rice
Kimchi and rice

Kimchi

24. During your holidays…

Most foreigners will travel to other South East Asian countries as it is quite cheap.

25. There are private karaoke and DVD rooms which are very popular.

You can get a group of friends together and go singing, or watch a movie on a big screen with a couch and have drinks and snacks. These can be found almost anywhere.

Karaoke

26. It is more expensive to live here.

I’d advise bringing R6000.00 to R10 000.00 for the first month in Korea.

27. It is not rude to use your cell phone…

It isn’t considered impolite to use your cell phone during dinner or social events, or any time, in fact.

28. Drinking in public is legal.

Helena Lorimer

29. Street food is very popular. Even bugs.

Street food is very popular (even bugs)

30. Koreans celebrate Buddha’s birthday.

Buddha’s birthday is in May and it’s a national holiday.

Koreans celebrate Buddhas birthday.

31. There are tall buildings EVERYWHERE. In Gangnam, Seoul.

There are tall buildings EVERYWHERE. In Gangnam, Seoul.

32. There are many palaces in Korea.

This is Gyeongbok Palace, Seoul.

Gyeongbok Palace, Seoul. There are many palaces in Korea.

33. You do not wear shoes inside the house.

You will take them off at the entrance and walk in your socks. The same applies at work where you will take them off and walk in your socks or in ‘inside shoes’.

Cherry blossom during Spring
“I always thought it was a small world – until arriving here. My first impression was that I was on a different planet…but it was exciting.” – Helena Lorimer

All Photos by Helena Lorimer